you can trans if you want to
you can leave your cis behind
- (my dad walks into a room where I am crying)
- Dad: Aww, sweety. What's wrong?
- Me (in between sobs): HOW DO I KNOW LOVE IS REAL WHEN ALL OF OUR SOCIAL RELATIONS ARE COMMODIFIED UNDER CAPITALISM?
- Dad: um . . . . uh (pats back, bemused)
*cuddles up close to you* *puts my mouth by your ear* I NEED CONSTANT REASSURANCE THAT YOU STILL ENJOY ME AND FIND OUR RELATIONSHIP APPEALING
— Laverne Cox (via angerisbeautiful-79)
less “if you’re cis you shouldn’t use these pronouns” and more “hey if you feel good with those pronouns you’re probably not cis.”
help more people experiment with their gender and stop telling everyone who isn’t 100% sure of their transness that they’re cis.