Fetish communities have this thing - YKINMK (your kink is not my kink, but that’s okay).
And, what happens, is misogynists and racists grab onto that. Their hatred and violence towards women and PoC are just fetishes! And you can’t help what turns you on!
So, we must all respect whatever way oppressors want to dehumanize people, because it gets them off.
It’s all okay now, if you just sexualize oppression.
- Me looking at flowers: if I was a fairy I would totally use this as a dress
oh my god! you’re straight? i never would have guessed. you just seem so nice and pleasant and thoughtful; not at all like the other straights i’ve met
i stopped identifying as tenderqueer because i felt like most people claiming this wanted tenderness without reciprocating. i am tender and am tender to people i love and don’t expect people to reward me for being a masculine person who expresses feelings. i felt like most masculine people who claimed tenderqueer felt entitled to rewards and praise for showing emotion and vulnerability.
do you ever get friendlust. like. you just see someone and you’re like. man. i have such a friendcrush on you. i wanna be ur friend so bad. i wanna be more than a friend. i wanna be a BEST friend u hear me. ur so cool. i admire u a lot and ur so funny. plz b my bffl. i will treat u right. let me be ur drake-friend. no other friend will treat u like i would